Below is a chat I had with my parents about an adventure we'd just returned home from in the southern Mexican state of Guerrero. Sprinkled throughout the chat are 44 photos that will give you an feel for the region's beauty, rough-and-tumble reputation and our experiences during these kinds of teaching trips.
Gulick Rog :
Hi - This is Mom
TimAnnetteGulick:
:-) this is tim
Gulick Rog:
How were the 10 days of conferences
you gave
TimAnnetteGulick:
pretty good... we were in Acapulco
and then Ometepec (both in the state of Guerrero) from last thursday til yesterday
Gulick Rog:
Where there many youth leaders there?
TimAnnetteGulick:
we had larger attendance than we
had in the past (we've been to both the places once before - last year, in fact)
Gulick Rog :
Why was it just pretty good.
TimAnnetteGulick:
well... it's always interesting
to see how - even after we do training - they pretty much stick to their "old"
ways of doing things (teaching in boring sermon-like ways, not including the
kids enough in interaction with the scriptures)
Gulick Rog:
do they do some practice in front of you so you
see they do it the same way, or do they tell you they do it the same way.
TimAnnetteGulick:
and they always says stuff like
- "We really liked what you taught us last year... it helped us a lot."
And when you ask then exactly what was helpful to them, they say something like,
"that game we played"... or, "When you wore a blue T-shirt." Here's a picture
from the first conference:
Gulick Rog:
One probably get a couple converts to the interactive
way, so not all is lost. I
know, it is frustrating. Change is hard and takes
time. Do you do an
evaluation asking. So, after this conference what will you be doing differently.
etc
TimAnnetteGulick:
during our conferences we usually
teach them using the methods we are trying to convice them are important and
biblical, then we have a youth event where they put it into practice... they
practiced in front of us before hand. But I was talking about now that a year
has passed and it seems that they forgot (or didn't really incorporate what
we taught into their ministry)
Gulick Rog :
I'm sure there is a lot more impact then you think.
TimAnnetteGulick:
but overall - we are very happy
with the fact that all seem to use our materials (which really can't be used
without them putting into practice a bit of what we teach because the lessons
are interactive in-and-of-themselves)
Gulick Rog:
Definately
TimAnnetteGulick:
we have done evaluations every once
in a while... we did them this last conference
Gulick Rog :
Great! I'm glad you
are back safely. We prayed. Any problems.
TimAnnetteGulick :
no problems... lot's of road, but
no problems ;-)
thanks for your prayers!
Gulick Rog:
How many of your team went with you?
Or was it just the two of you?
TimAnnetteGulick:
We were with Veronica, Nahum and
Steve Young in the first conference.
Hey, here's a picture of Steve teaching
- we always do seminars with him... he's a really good teacher and even nicer
person
TimAnnetteGulick :
Hey...
let me send you a couple more pics from our trip...
hold on
TimAnnetteGulick :
make sure you maximize your window
(hit
F11 at the top of your keyboard) and
see the photos... here comes another
one
Gulick Rog :
Where is that water?
TimAnnetteGulick :
Gulick Rog :
That is a great picture of Annette and Vero
TimAnnetteGulick :
Here's a picture of Annette, Nahum, Vero and Steve looking at the ocean from
some lookout point. We had a half day off before our second evening of teaching
and since the folks who invited us had freind who owned a hotel, we got to hang
out their doing some planning for the conference, but mostly just relaxing.
Gulick Rog :
Wow. What is the water. Is that the Pacific or
the Atlantic or what?
TimAnnetteGulick :
It's Acapulco wherte our first conference
was. The Pacific - it's on the Pacific
- west coast. Here is Nahum teaching
on how to "grow your youth group" (it's basically about
discipleship)
Gulick Rog :
Looks interactive to me. It's
so great to see your others doing the work. Just like it is suppose to be.
TimAnnetteGulick :
We try (to
make it interactive) ;-)
Gulick Rog :
Do you love doing conferences.
TimAnnetteGulick :
We do like doing conferences...
though sometimes it's frustrating to see little change from year to year...
like I mentioned above. Here I am doing outside games with them... showing them
how games can create unity or help folks get to know one another
Gulick Rog :
Very good...Dad here now too
TimAnnetteGulick :
Here's where the leaders we've just
taught put into practice what they learned... we had a big youth event - all
Presbyterian youth groups in the city were invited... and the leaders we'd just
trained guided the event. Here we are organizing the 90+ youth into groups for
a rally thing we did
Gulick Rog :
Looks like fun....lots of smiles
TimAnnetteGulick :
Yes... this event went very well
:-)
Gulick Rog :
Where is this conference? They
look involved.
TimAnnetteGulick :
This, our first of two conferences,
was in Acapulco. Here's a nice picture of us - it was at dinner after the big
youth event. Dinner at 10:00 pm
Gulick Rog :
Cute couple!
TimAnnetteGulick :
the next to last photo - where you
said they look involved is at the very end of the night when we were
giving out prizes for the teams that won the "Most Valuable Scavenger Hunt"
Gulick Rog :
What were the prizes?
TimAnnetteGulick :
where you give them a peso and tell
the group that they have one hour to go out and try and trade that peso up
for the most valuable thing they can... one team got an old fan, computer, and
chair
Gulick Rog :
WOW! It must be cross
cultural game, we used to do that hunt with kids
here in the U.S. Once when we did that scavenger hunt, one of our teams came
back with a rowboat
TimAnnetteGulick :
no way! how fun! The winning team that night had a nice hubcap (not stolen),
a table, lamp wicker chair and painting
or framed window thingy
Gulick Rog :
What does one do with a hubcap?
TimAnnetteGulick :
Use it as a peanut bowl... i dunno.
:-)
One team had a TV, but it didn't work
TimAnnetteGulick :
here's a photo from that hotel where
Steve Young and Nahum got to stay:
Gulick Rog :
Nice accomodations...
or at least nice view
TimAnnetteGulick :
It's a hotel that used to be owned
by Johnny Weismuller and John Wayne and a bunch of other stars from a long time
ago
Gulick Rog :
Interesting!
TimAnnetteGulick :
It's a famous old place but it has it's charms and they stayed cheaply there
because the owners wife is a Christian and give's the church there a discount.
Here is what we did that morning
that we had free:
Gulick Rog :
Tough life - Was it
as nice as it looks?
Gulick Rog :
Who is the pale face in the picture?
TimAnnetteGulick :
pale gut more like it! :-p
TimAnnetteGulick :
yes... it was nice... oldish and
I'd say a 3 star, but a 5 star view! Here's a panoramic photo from the balcony
of their room (we stayed with a nice older Mexican woman at her house but visted
Nahum and Steve at the hotel)
Gulick Rog :
6 star view
Gulick Rog :
Where is Acapulco from the panoramic view. I remember
our once there and it was a biggggg bay and we stayed about in the middle
of it
TimAnnetteGulick :
the hotel is on the outside (outside
of the bay - Pacific view side) of one of the little peninsulas that close in
toward the mouth of the bay that is Acapulco - think of the big bay you remember
as being the inside of the letter "C" and the hotel and the view in the photo
is on the outside of the bottom rising curve of the "C"
Gulick Rog :
Gotcha... nice clear
description.
TimAnnetteGulick :
here's a darkish view from the hotel
restaurant where we ate once:
Gulick Rog :
nice
TimAnnetteGulick :
here are some photos from Ometepec,
Guerrero state. It's where we gave our second conference:
Gulick Rog :
Not quite the Pacific beach.
Gulick Rog :
Nice artistic work
on the whiteboard
TimAnnetteGulick :
as you can see it's a bit more rural...
and I'd say only 1 in 3 who attended each afternoon were actually youth leaders.
It was weird cause we made it very clear the first day that the training was
specifically for "Those who have a responsability in the leadership of the youth
group" but the next day even more young kids arrived
Gulick Rog :
You are so good as teachers that they don't want
to miss it
TimAnnetteGulick :
Ha ha :-D I doubt that... but thanks anyway.
Gulick Rog :
1 star accomadations?
TimAnnetteGulick :
right! :-D
ha ha
Our sleeping arrangements were a
bit basic... as you can see from this photo of Nahum above
Gulick Rog :
At least you don't have to flip the mattress up
against the wall each morning like some accomodations I have slept in in Toluca
- ha ha :-)
TimAnnetteGulick :
Hey! our bed is comfy :-)
a bit low to the ground - or rather, on the ground, but comfy. And no cockroaches
or scorpions like in Guerrero state.
TimAnnetteGulick :
Here is a young missionary that we had been in touch with via email a
couple of months ago... he's a friend of Annette's uncle (a presbyterian pastor
in Wisconsin)
We happened to find out that he is based in Ometepec... which is incredible
since it's smallish town of about 20 thousand in the hills of one of the poorest
states in the country... and so we got in contact with him and had breakfast
together.
Gulick Rog :
Is he a church planter? What
mission group?
TimAnnetteGulick :
yes...He's
with the Moravians... but evangelical
TimAnnetteGulick :
Oh, guess how many Moravian missionaries
there are in the world now...
Gulick Rog :
How many? I know they were among the first, especially
in the New World
TimAnnetteGulick :
only
3! can
you believe that?!
Gulick Rog :
No! -- of course,
there are only like 27 Moravians in the U. S. anymore
:-D
TimAnnetteGulick :
ha ha :-)
This next photo was taken from the
hip, so it's not on target, but you get the idea... check out those toes. That's
inner tube tires rubber he's using on the top of those huaraches
Gulick Rog :
If he wore pointy shoes like I do, his toes wouldn't
look like that
TimAnnetteGulick :
Right, his toes would look even
worse... all crunched up :-)
TimAnnetteGulick :
Want some chicken?
TimAnnetteGulick :
Here's another view of downtown Ometepec... it's Bishop is evil and has
even shot and killed another priest in cold blood in front of a wedding service
because the other priest was doing the wedding in "his" precinct:
Gulick Rog :
Got it. Nice bishop. Did he get punished?
Nice cathedral though.
TimAnnetteGulick :
No he did not get punished. Well, at least he's still there. They say he carries
a pistol under his robe
TimAnnetteGulick :
Coconut saleswoman:
Gulick Rog :
Big coconuts
TimAnnetteGulick :
Little woman.
Gulick Rog :
Just hope you could beat him on a quick draw.
That is a bit scary to have the justice system like that
TimAnnetteGulick :
I think this is my favorite Ometepec
picture (from the hip again):
TimAnnetteGulick :
note the machete on his side
Gulick Rog :
Yes. So I guess you didn't tell him that his two
shades of blue don't match
TimAnnetteGulick :
ha ha - right. I'm sure he's very
embarassed :-P
and here's some Amusgo indians that are waiting for something:
Gulick Rog :
nice photo - When
you are poor, there is always a lot of waiting
TimAnnetteGulick :
Check out the way the woman on the
left carries that cookie tray:
Gulick Rog :
It does leave your hands free. Another
hip shot...I can tell from the angle of the shot. What
is the seated lady selling?
TimAnnetteGulick :
I think pirated cassettes. Homemade
mixes.
Gulick Rog :
oh - interesting
TimAnnetteGulick :
here's a basic stick and mud design
home on the side of the road.
Gulick Rog :
With TV - They're
sticking to the essentials of life :-D
TimAnnetteGulick :
Right...
ha... funny I hadn't even noticed
the TV antenae - wow
We took our once-a-week day off
down there at this little not-so-impressive beach. Annette took this while I
was snoozing in the high heat of the day.
Gulick Rog :
You look pretty comfortable. Were
Vero and Nahum still with y'all?
TimAnnetteGulick :
Vero wasn't with us any longer at
this point. She had to return to work here in Toluca. But Nahum was with us
- as you can see in the photo below. Steve Young also had to return to Queretaro
where he lives because he had a meeting in Chicago the next day.
And there is lunch (above). Nahum had scrambled eggs and Annette had some sort
of fried carbohydrate topped with coleslaw thing.
Gulick Rog :
cute girl!
Gulick Rog :
What mission is Steve with?
TimAnnetteGulick :
he's with a U.S. based youth ministry
training group called "Reach Out Ministries" (out of Atlanta) but he is in Mexico
under World Teams
here Nahum is trying to make the
ocean open up like Moses did. Really! however it didn't work :-P
Gulick Rog :
:-\ at least Nahum tried. I think it only works
on seas, not oceans
TimAnnetteGulick :
ah.. I tell him about that little
detail... it will encourage his faith
:-D
ha ha
TimAnnetteGulick :
Gulick Rog :
NICE!! I've saved
both good close-up pictures of you two. Did
you take that one? If so...good job,
TimAnnetteGulick :
yes... I took it with my arm outstretched
(you can kinda tell)
here's one of Annette and Nahum looking at the sunset
Gulick Rog :
Nice. It gives me the impression of the vastness
of the ocean and the smallness of humans
TimAnnetteGulick :
here's one just before it went down
(that's annette in the shot):
Gulick Rog :
I'm loving the pictures. I
thought you said, "A not very impressive beach."
TimAnnetteGulick :
I'm so glad you're enjoying them...
it takes me a while cause I have to crop, color auto-fix, and size and save
them before sending them to you.
It wasn't very impressive - I'm just a good photographer - ha ha
Gulick Rog :
:-) and humble too!
TimAnnetteGulick :
right ;-)
Gulick Rog :
Crowded beach. A lot like Myrtle Beach :-D
TimAnnetteGulick :
last sunset picture... look at the
left and you can see the end of the land (of this bay)
Gulick Rog :
nice picture
TimAnnetteGulick :
When Annette and Nahum and I were
at the beach it was really crowded... look here at all the other people on the
beach. Here are all of them:
TimAnnetteGulick :
a fisherman and his son
Gulick Rog :
Nice
TimAnnetteGulick :
now here's one going back to Ometepec
(the town) this is a shot form our car window)
TimAnnetteGulick :
Gulick Rog :
Why do I know the name Ometepec? Have we been there
or is there another one near you?
TimAnnetteGulick :
TimAnnetteGulick :
we live in Metepec, Estado
de Mexico, and so it's sounds real
close
Gulick Rog :
:-p oops
TimAnnetteGulick :
indian women walking past a icecream
store
Gulick Rog :
I want a coconut paletas (popsicle)
TimAnnetteGulick :
here comes a classic sidewalk street
corner scene
TimAnnetteGulick :
TimAnnetteGulick :
good memory! :-)
I want a coconut paleta too
Gulick Rog :
Classic - Nice
Mexican flags coming out of the wall of the building!:-)
TimAnnetteGulick :
you do realize that that is coming out of the windshield of my car, right?
Gulick Rog :
Silly guy...of course
TimAnnetteGulick :
Here's another
street scene... kinda dirty
Gulick Rog :
not too dirty
TimAnnetteGulick :
well.. it's not exactly hygenic
looking. Look at the trash and stuff - but you're right, it's not too bad
TimAnnetteGulick :
mainstreet Mexico:
Gulick Rog :
Wish I had some pictures, but we haven't gone anywhere
in a long time
Gulick Rog :
Looks like Ometepec...you know the city where the
bishop carries a sidearm
TimAnnetteGulick :
very good observation skills...
he does carry a side-arm... but I can barely see him :-D
TimAnnetteGulick :
Now here's a classic shot!
Gulick Rog :
Albertsons Grocery
store? :-D
TimAnnetteGulick :
ha ha - yes!
TimAnnetteGulick :
Grocery store from 80 years ago
Gulick Rog :
Would more people come in and buy, if it were all
neat and straightened up?
Or are they just re-filling the bins and the boxes
will soon be gone?
TimAnnetteGulick :
TimAnnetteGulick :
who knows... probably never even
considered it one way or another (the owners)
Gulick Rog :
Nice "parasol" on the lady on the right.
It does keep the sun off... Not
exactly a fashion statement ...though
TimAnnetteGulick :
Oh, but it is a fashion statement..
it distinguishes her as an Amusgo Indian (and that is a shawl which keeps her
warm in the evenings and turns into a "parasol" in the heat of the
sun). Very practical, but I don't think it will cat on in Paris, Milan or New
York.
Gulick Rog :
Do you have a white suit like that guy in the middle?
TimAnnetteGulick :
no white suit - sorry. That's actually
called "manta" and is regular indian dress
for men in most of mexico
Gulick Rog :
ahhh... um, do you have a white hat at least?
TimAnnetteGulick :
Glad you mentioned white hats...
'cause here comes the cowboy paraphenalia area:
A bit of window reflection too.
TimAnnetteGulick :
and by the
way, don't have a white hat either :-D I'm
just so deprived (ha)
TimAnnetteGulick :
by the way, see our rearview mirror
on the right?... that's the only stoplight in town and it doesn't work
Gulick Rog :
:-)
Gulick Rog :
Are those oranges good?
TimAnnetteGulick :
I don't know
actually...
all i know is that they make great orange
juice... we never had them in solid form
TimAnnetteGulick :
hey... i better go... take a shower...
bye. Love
you both
Gulick Rog :
ok great talking with you! Neat pictures
TimAnnetteGulick :
show it all too Mom
Gulick Rog :
ok, will do